Perpanjang Ijin Penggunaan Tanah Makam (IPTM) TPU Karet Pasar Baru

Perpanjang Ijin Penggunaan Tanah Makam (IPTM) TPU Karet Pasar Baru

Another 3 years passed by

Ga kerasa, udah berlalu lagi 3 tahun, saatnya mengurus kembali dokumen Alm. Ayah.
Ijin Penggunaan Tanah Makam (IPTM), adalah sebuah dokumen Ijin yang dikeluarkan oleh pemerintah untuk penggunaan Tanah Makam, kira-kira seperti bayar kontrakan kalau kita masih hidup.
Ada beberapa ketentuan untuk mengurus IPTM, yaitu..

IPTM dikeluarkan per-3 tahun,
jadi ga bisa bayar dimuka untuk berpuluh tahun, kudu diurus per 3 tahun, jadi terserah deh mau sang ahli waris sedang berada dimana, begitu sudah masuk bulannya atau atleast 1 bulan sebelumnya baru bisa diurus perpanjangannya, kebetulan kemarin bahkan Ra diceritakan oleh petugasnya, ada yang datang dari Medan untuk perpanjang IPTM disini. Dan ga bisa juga asal sempat trus mengurus, kemarin ada yang ditolak oleh petugasnya, karena masih terlalu lama, lebih dari 3 bulan lagi baru abis.

IPTM boleh telat diurus sampai maksimal 3 bulan

Yups, di suratnya dituliskan begitu, sampai maksimal 3 bulan telat, kalau tidak, maka otomatis Tanah Makam akan digunakan untuk jenazah lain.

IPTM diurus di PTSP (Pelayanan Terpadu Satu Pintu) Kelurahan Mana aja.
Ra ngejalanin sendiri, berKTP Jakarta Selatan, Dulu alamat Ayah di Jakarta Barat, Taman Pemakaman Umum (TPU) Karet ini di Jakarta Pusat, tidak ada keharusan mengurusnya di Kelurahan Alamat Mira, Alamat Ayah atau TPU. Saran, mending di PTSP kelurahan terdekat TPU aja.

Oh iya, kalau dulu IPTM dikeluarkan dari kantor TPU sekarang pengurusan IPTM lebih terintegrasi, online..tsaaah keren lah pokoknya..prok..prook..

Yang harus dilakukan adalah :

1. Mempersiapkan berkas :
a.Ijin Penggunaan Tanah Makam (IPTM) ASLI yang dimiliki sebelumnya, jika tidak ada, bikin surat kehilangan dari kepolisian
b. Fotocopi IPTM terdahulu 2lembar
c. Fotocopi KTP ahli waris/ keluarga 2 lembar (KTP yang datang mengurus saja, bukan seluruh ahli waris yaaaa)

2. Datang ke TPU yang dituju
Mira datang ke TPU Karet Pasar Baru Barat, di Lt.1 nanti lapor ke petugasnya “Pak, saya mau perpanjang IPTM”, nanti dicek dulu, kalau masih lama abisnya, biasanya disuruh balik lagi, kalau sudah waktunya, dipersilahkan ke Lt.2
di. Lt.2 ketemu teteh cantik yang baik hati, nanti diminta isi buku tamu.. lalu berkas kita diproses, dan dibuatkan “Surat Pengantar dari Petugas TPU”, lalu berkas kita dibundel dan dikembalikan, dan dipersilahkan untuk ke kantor kelurahan terdekat.
Jangan sembarangan datang yaaa.. TPU ada hari dan jam kerja nya, TPU Karet Pasar Baru Barat 5 working day, alias 5 hari kerja, Senin – Jumat ajaaa bukanya

3. Datang ke PTSP Kelurahan terdekat
Kelurahan terdekat dari TPU ada beberapa : Kelurahan Karet Pasar Baru, Kelurahan Tanah Abang, Kelurahan Kebon Melati.
Mira milih Kelurahan Kebon Melati, sampai di PTSP, serahkan berkas, lalu mengisi formulir, eits..pakai materai 6 ribu yaaa 1 buah, fiuh untungnya mira selalu bawa. Lalu dokumen dibawa ke dalam, truuus.. dapat Surat Perintah Bayar (SPB), dengan virtual account dengan nominal sesuai Blok Makam, masalahnyaaaa… ini harus dibayarkan di BANK DKI.. gubrak…dan kebetulan Kelurahan Kebon Melati ga ada BANK DKI nyaaa.. hiks, tapi alhamdulillah…. Ada ATM nya dan bisa pakai kartu ATM Bank mana aja.. fiuh.. jadi mira langsung bayar di ATM tersebut, struknya langsung mira serahkan kembali ke petugas PTSP, tandatangan bukti bayar..trus nunggu lagi… ga sampai 15 menit..akhirnyaaa IPTM nya selesai.. horeeeee

4. Kembali ke Kantor TPU
Yups, IPTM baru tersebut, difotocopy sekali.. fotocopi nya diserahkan kembali ke petugas di TPU untuk dicatat bahwa kita udah perpanjang IPTM

Selesaaaai… Oia, proses in dikerjakan sendiri, tanpa minta tolong Calo, dll, tidak dikenakan biaya tambahan

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Praaang and the plates into shards

Praaang.. And the plates into shards

Friday, March 5th 1993

Today is Ramadhan 11th 1413 Hijriah, a sawm day, well off course you don`t do the sawm due to you are just a little girl, your sister Mira also, yet she is learning to do the sawm (she join Suhur, later on around 10 AM she eat. What’s been kind of bothering, you are overact more than those who do the sawm
Every day you are busy about meals only, if day light you keep asking your mother “Mom, today what do you cook, what are you going to make”, sometimes you also request “mom, can we cook this one, that one, etc” , if your mother say “today, we will not cook anything for Iftar ” , You look disappointed and saying “yaaaah, there nothing for Iftar” .

Often you also arguing with your sister Mira, deciding who will buy ice cube during afternoon.

stock-photo-shards-of-a-broken-plate-on-a-wooden-surface-105580115Just like usually, approaching Iftar, the children help their mother preparing the meal, and so were you, Yesterday on May 4th, you also help your mother, you bring rice, and going around the kitchen, once you carried the plates, all of the sudden the plates slip, 3 big plates slip, hit the rice bowl, broken into pieces, the shard some also probably mixed in the rice bowl.
Then we clean and tidy up the shards, the rice that probably had plates shard, is untouchable.

You look frighten, but your father and mother did not scold you,
if you are in the village back years, the time your father is just a boy, kids who broke plate usually got scold and the mother will hit the kid.

#Our Ramadhan Stories
# translated from my sister’s diary written by our father

Diary Nansi

Diary Nansi

# 7 Ramadhan 1436 Hijriah

#picture a shards plate taken from http://www.shutterstock.com

Like Father like daughter…

25 Dec 1983

My fourth child born, a baby girl… I named her MIRA, in Greece language from MYRA, meaning pretty or beautiful, yes indeed she has a black and thick hair for a newly born baby.. and she also has a double eyelid…  and because of my first child was a girl too and number 2 and 3 was a boy.. I did expect my fourth child will be a girl. Yet there is one condition… she has a duplicated thumb on her right hand…

My wife once said.. that once when she was pregnant.. I hit an animal.. like a rodent and it hit its leg.

Sometimes it did cross my mind “was it my fault ?”

1987

I went to a pediatrician .. asking about Mira’s thumb condition.. the doctor said that it was a polydactily, it was genetic but not passed always, only on “special” occasion.. either from my gene or from my wife. The doctor suggest to do an operate.. because atleast Mira are still a little girl.. atleast she didn’t have much friend for now.. that might talking bad about her thumb..

So I ask “will it affect her writing ?.. if mira undergo an operation, will it affect her brain.. I mean.. sometimes I know, when someone having congenital .. she might be “less smart”.

And I also thought that “if GOD create her that way.. than it is GOD will.. so let it be..”

I think I had enough fault with my little daughter..  so I don’t want to make GOD angry for changing HIS Creation (mira’s right thumb).

July 1989

Today Mira start her kindergarten … I don’t really know how she was at school.. did she feel embarrass because of her thumb ?

12 June 1993

Today another  graduation day..

My Mira passed her 3rd year elementary school… being first place… well actually I do proud of her.. from my wife story atleast I know that her thumb doesn’t make her  embarrassed for making friend..  having a thumb like that.. my daughter not even  become left handed.. so definitely when she was writing, everyone will actually notice her condition…

June 1996

Today Mira graduates from her elementary school.. proud of her.. during elementary.. she only missed the 1st place one times….  Well actually her sister and brother also smart.. but Mira’s record really better.

19 Oct 1996

Mira having her first report book in junior high school.. for the first time I attend mira’s school.. because its like an unwritten deal between me and my wife.. after elementary, “I’m the one that go for our children matter”

When I met her homeroom teacher.. He said “I think Mira should move from this school ?” when I ask “why, sir ?” Her teacher said “because this is the first time the 1st rank student make a gap of 10 point with the 2nd rank student”. Once again.. I’m so proud of my little daughter.

June 1998

Guess what.. my daughter elected to join “siswa teladan SLTP”. Although she didn’t make it until the end. She end up as the 3rd place for Jakarta Barat.

August 1998

Been a tough day… every Tuesday and Thursday, mira must attend a cram school… starting 2PM until 6PM.. so I decided that I picked her every that day…  indeed just a little trip I guess between me and her.

Not much of a talking also… because sometimes she did her homework at car… or she slept along 30 minutes. Ah.. I remember.. there is a place where atleast I talked to her, during one traffic light.. I often ask “are you hungry ?” so I bought her a bread… well not much of a talk isn’t …

25 May 1999

Mira received her national examination test.. Wow.. she actually got a 9.74 score for the lesson I didn’t much care (hate) when I went to my old school…  for English..  I don’t really get it.. from whose gene did she get it for that English.

One more thing.. for the past 3 year.. Mira was 1st place always…

23 Oct 1999

For the first time… mira didn’t get any rank..

Than I realized something.. it doesn’t matter really about rank… because her school now are so much different from before… indeed this school have a high standard…  and my Mira work really hard.

Not much that I can do.. well atleast I still can take and pick her to school, although that’s also mean, I must wake up early and go home after work late…

22 June 2002

Today Mira graduate from her high school… there was a ceremony.. I didn’t attend.. well during 3 years, I don’t expect much from her again.. I even sometimes think “did she really on the right school ?” .

When She arrived at home, nothing really special… but she say “Dad, do you know what I brougt today ? .. I got a radiotape from school..!!” and I asked “Why ? what so special about that radiotape ?”

She smiled and take out her medal “ I got 1st place in my class in the national exam”. So I said “why didn’t you told me before.. atleast I can go to school..!!” . once again.. “ I’m proud of her”

August 2002

Today is the announcement day of national entrance for university. Mira choose to take medicine faculty… Usually we must wait the newspaper at the morning.. and seek for a name from thousand name…

I know that mira didn’t sleep upstair.. she must be waiting for her brother to call her.

So early morning.. or is it more like midnight.. My 2nd child call from Bandung, He went to bus terminal.. because usually newspaper are distributed there before sell at 7 AM.  He looked for her sister’s name.. and he phone me to said “Mira will enter medicine school at Bandung…”.

So I went upstair… I knocked her room and when she’s out, I hugged her and say “Alhamdulillah… my little daughter will be a doctor”.

June 2006

Today is shocking…

When mira Ask me “ why Dad ? why must I attend these medical school… ?!! it is a hard school.. and again.. I can’t became a doctor with these kind of thumb, how am I going to hold all of the medical equipment… why didn’t I went an operation early…”

And I just reply “I thought you wanna became a doctor, because you often sat next to your sister book, and sometimes read it”  and an operation ?? I don’t even thinking about about it again…

July 2006

Mira ask permission to undergo an operation…

“dear GOD.. I didn’t mean to change your creation.. I said YES, because it is the only way.. for my little daughter to became a doctor..”

August 2009

Everytime she went home.. I often ask “how is your thumb ?” I guess so much what we felt guilt for our children isn’t ??!!

May 2010

Today Mira take a vow for being a doctor..

Can hardly imagine.. whether it was her dream or my dream of her, for being A doctor…

August 2010

Mira join a research team, and I always thought that she will open a private practice with a board written her name “dr. Mira”. Than again I was thinking.. “actually, becoming doctor, is it her dream or my dream of her?”

January 2011

Hearing mira’s story about her research was also fun.. and I think, finally I know.. “Mira loves what she’s doing now.. doing research stuff”.  Just let her do what she like…

April 2011

Mira said she’s writing a book tobe publish… I only see the draft… can’t hardly wait for the book…

27 Dec 2011

Been 6 month after my Dad just passed away… I didn’t realized how much the guilt my Dad felt for me for the first day I was born…  How much I often made him uncomfortable..  was my achievement atleast met your hope for me.. and cover all the guilt you felt for all the years..

My Dad, really don’t talk that much…

Until, when I read his Diary (forgive me Dad for reading your diary).

Forgive me.. for not being a good daughter..

For not having a little nice talk on our little 30 minutes ride…

For not trying to understand what do you really want me to do..

And Dad, for the doctor stuff.. I really am grateful.. because maybe if I didn’t  enter medicine school, I might be always your unindependent little daughter…  well atleast now I can say “I’m fine walking alone…when you are no more to pick me up”.

 And also Today…

I really want to yell out loud.. so that you Dad, can hear it… “ I really got my book published..!!!”

And Dad.. about these writing stuff.. So much like you isn’t ?? for that reason.. I will always proudly said “ I inherited from my Dad’s gene..!!!”

“like father like daughter”

PS :Thankyou mom.. for telling me all the stuff about Dad, so that i can write it today…